Who are you?

Your job does not define you, and yet we are often introduced in terms of how we make a living. Questions like “what do you do for a living?” “what line of work are you in?” reinforce the concept that our occupation defines us, but it only gives a brief glimpse of who we really are. In my work, I often help clients who have some kind of limitations and have trouble returning to their jobs because of an injury or illness. If they’ve succumbed to defining themselves by their work, their task is even more difficult.

That soldier who lost a leg and cannot be a part of an infantry mission ever again also has great fun creating feasts in the kitchen, and he loves his annual retreat to the mountains where this year he will finish writing his ninth play. The nurse with a worn out back loves has a passion for working with stained glass. Her church is about to unveil a beautiful stained glass window that she has created, but you will never know learn that about her if you just focus on what she has done to earn a living.

The next time you meet someone, resist the temptation to ask those standard questions. Instead, ask them about the things they love, their hobbies or their family. Their answer may reveal a whole lot that you can never get when you ask the usual questions about work.

Then start thinking about yourself in terms or who you are and what drives you, instead of defining yourself by what you do for a living.

Now pre-ordering!


Woohoo! I received an email from my editor today, who is ready to add my story into an anthology of inspiration, reflection and motivation from the Wake Up Women BE movement that is picking up speed. It’s really exciting seeing my work all laid out officially edited AND knowing that it is going to be a part of something that can help people to change their lives. Visit the book site at http://www.wuwbestseller.com and you can pre-order your own copy. Put my name in the “how did you hear about us” spot and you’ll receive a copy of the limited first edition that will be available in October. When you register, you are under no obligation and you can get some really neat e-books and courses for your efforts, such as:

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Quote of the Day

I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be, for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances.

Martha Washington

12 Steps to a Mind-Boggling Career


So you’re at the planning stage, and thinking about the things that you’d like to do to advance your career and get ahead. You don’t have to make a change right away (but check yesterday’s blog post if that’s the case—because you’ll need that information to help you get ahead too).

Here are my top 12 kick butt strategies for a career that really inspires.

1. Assess people in your target positions (remember yesterday’s step 4 about outlining your next five career moves), and have an honest look at the people already there. Who does an excellent job? What skills do they have? Do you have those skills or perhaps even more to offer?

2. If you want to work for a different company, then it can help to get to know some of the people there. Conduct an information gathering interview. Equally powerful is to join an association and get involved to get known. Don’t just sit on the periphery waiting to be discovered. Remember that this is an investment in your career. Participate wholeheartedly too; no one is going to gravitate toward you if your membership is simply a replacement for a business card.

3. Think strategically about what you are prepared to do to help yourself. Be honest about it. If you’re only willing to commit 10 minutes a week, then you’re not going to get far and you won’t be advancing that quickly. Get serious, get committed and get results.

4. If you do not have the education that you need for the position that you want, or you know that the folks in the jobs you want have more education than you do, take a class to develop your competency in the area you want to get into. You don’t have to necessarily need to have completed the same level of development, but you’d better be showing your commitment to and interest in your target area. Go after the credentials that apply to your desired area of work; these days there are certificates and courses for pretty much everything, and employers use them as part of the process to see who is serious and who is not.

5. Analyze your competition and see how you measure up. You want to establish yourself as THE best candidate, not just any candidate. Analyse where your competition’s weaknesses are and ensure that you don’t have issues yourself in those same areas, while you continue to improve your own strengths.

6. Assess your current work load. Does what you’re doing have an impact on people you want noticing you? Is there an opportunity for you to gain exposure based on what you are working on? Does someone several levels above you know about your work, and the value it will bring to the organization? If not, ask for more responsibility, and volunteer if tasks are not offered directly to you. Then make certain that you are prepared to deliver, and go out of your way to impress.

7. Speaking of impressing, do more than what is expected of you. Go above and beyond the call of duty so that when tough stuff comes up, people are looking to you for answers. If you want to get ahead, you must be ahead, and if you wish to lead you must behave like a leader no matter what your job title is.

8. Dress for where you want to be in life, in the position that you want. That might mean that you are the best dressed person on your team, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Dressing for the position that you want is exactly how other people can picture you doing the job that you desire.

9. Visualize yourself in that position that you want, making the decisions and completing the projects that count. Visualization is a very powerful to get your subconscious helping you to achieve that new job. Even if you aren’t sure what it is that you want, visualize yourself doing the things that you know are a part of your future. What are you wearing? Where are you living? Imagine your body language and demeanour as someone who has what they want. If you cannot see yourself in the position that you want, no one else will see you there either.

10. Read periodicals that pertain to your industry. If you are not reading these, then you are not up to date and can derail your own plans by missing out on key developments or changes that are taking place. Take responsibility for what you must know, and READ. Keep up on technological changes for the same reasons.

11. Make a list of the TYPES of jobs that you would love. Don’t put barriers there; think outside the box a little. There are more than 20,000 different jobs in the job bank database, and more get added every year, yet many people when asked can only list about sixty before they run short of ideas.

12. Keep an open mind about relocation. A lot of times people stay in the same job that they hate because they don’t want to move, but think of the opportunities that can be open to you if you keep all your options open and don’t restrict yourself to living in the same place forever.

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You can copy and print this complete article for your personal use, or pass it along to someone that you know might benefit. Just be sure to include the following information without altering anything please:

(c) 2008 Pam Robertson, MVPi. Pam is a Career and Life Success Consultant who helps people to create lives and work that are worth celebrating. She is based in Nova Scotia, Canada and can be reached at 902.222.9212 or by email to pam(at)mvpi(dot)org. For more information you can also visit her website.

Changing jobs



When people find out that I am a career consultant / coach / kick you in the pants job change artist, I generally get one of two responses. Some don’t want to tell me what they do to make a living because they aren’t where they want to be; others ask me for help immediately because they or someone very close to them are keen to make a job change.

These are the top nine things I recommend for folks who want to make a job change but don’t know where to get started, and they want to move quickly with no time for dilly dallying.

1. Divide a sheet of paper into two columns. In the first column, list your skills. Include all of the things that you do at work – and at home – that you can do at work. Then go through the list again and use a highlighter to colour those skills that you can perform at a level of excellence, so that you now have a list within a list. You now have a list of things that you are good at.

2. In the second column, write activities that you really enjoy. We know that people who are doing work that and includes things they like to do succeed at work. That just makes sense, and although you might be itching to make a move right now, keep in mind the relationship between what you are good at and the things that you enjoy.

As an example, you could be very skilled at repairing engines. If an activity that you enjoy happens to be troubleshooting engine problems, then your skill and enjoyable activities complement one another. If however you have great skill at diagnosing human skin disease but don't like working with people, then you could become disconnected from your job very quickly.

3. Go through both columns and rate your level of expertise with your skills and the activities that you enjoy using a scale of 1 to 5, where 1 is you know how to do it, 3 means you can do it pretty well and 5 means that you can do it in your sleep you know it so well.

Now you have two columns that highlight things that you excel at.

4. Sketch an outline of your next five career moves. These can be lateral moves within your current company, promotions (vertical moves) or moves to new companies. They can also include starting your own company. The idea here is to get an idea of the progress that you are going to make.

5. On a fresh page, map out opportunities for work that you are good at within your current company, or within the target company of your next career move. How do you compare to the people already in that job in terms of age, education and experience? Be honest about how you compare with your competition. Which of them are doing a good job? Of those people, what skills do they possess? Do you have those skills?

6. Make a list of people who could help you. This might mean your bosses boss, a mentor, a previous supervisor, or people that you have not met yet. Just remember that people are often willing to help others succeed, but that they cannot help you if they don’t know what you need. If you aren’t well networked yet, you’ll have to be brave here while creating your list, but understand that you’ll benefit just as soon as you get comfortable operating outside of your comfort zone.

7. Get your resume working for you. Make sure that your resume is up to date and that it looks polished. No spelling mistakes, no lies and embellishments allowed. Your resume is your calling card, and introduces you for consideration in a new job. If you aren’t sure there are plenty of helpful books in the local library, employment office or information on the internet. You can even attend a workshop and really learn how to pull your information together. Don’t rely on someone else to create your resume; it’s your story and you should tell it. Get some professional help if you want someone to help you polish it, and then it will really stand out. Your resume must be up to date BEFORE you start approaching people for jobs, because it helps you to realize just how far you’ve come and how much you have to offer in your new position.

8. Conduct interviews. An interview is just a meeting, and this meeting is for you to talk to the people that you need to, and to ask for the information that will get ahead. This is where you contact the people in the list that you created at step six. When you book the meeting, let the person know that you are interested in getting ahead in your career, and that you’d like to ask them some questions. Have your list of questions ready, and be professional in the meeting. Let them know the types of positions that you are interested in. Most carefully, let them know what YOU can do for THEM now, within your current skills, knowledge and disposition so that they see that there is some sense in what you are saying, and to help you become a person of interest in their eyes.

9. Tell people that you know and trust that you are looking for a new job, and then tell them exactly what it is that you are looking for. Remember that people will often help you when they understand what you need. You might be amazed at what a conversation with a friend of a friend can do, and with the number of people who find the jobs they want through this kind of intentional networking.

Tomorrow, an article about planning for moving up the career ladder when you've got a little time on your side.

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You can copy and print this complete article for your personal use, or pass it along to someone that you know might benefit. Just be sure to include the following information without altering anything please:

(c) 2008 Pam Robertson, MVPi. Pam is a Career and Life Success Consultant who helps people to create lives and work that are worth celebrating. She is based in Nova Scotia, Canada and can be reached at 902.222.9212 or by email to pam(at)mvpi(dot)org. For more information you can also visit her website.

The Weekend!


Some new things in the works again this week. I've got to do a little shopping because I am going to spend a lot of time in a more public frame of reference, and it's been two years since I have done that. Working from home I have been wearing my favourite uniform everyday; jeans and slippers with whatever t-shirt was on the top of the stack. So, I will have to suck it up and do a little shopping. I'm not a big shopping fan. I must've missed that gene or something.
Today was much more interesting to me than shopping. Our neighbours were celebrating a family birthday and we joined them for a barbecue and some great music, which was a series of tapes recorded by our host and his band. Great friends, good eats AND I didn't have to cook supper either. What a treat!
Are you doing something this weekend to spend time with people you care about or doing things that you love?

MVPi Network Central

There’s a new forum up and running and waiting for YOUR input. MVPi Network Central is a place for coaches, consultants, trainers, entrepreneurs and anyone else looking for a positive place to network and learn.

In a survey of small business owners this summer, success was credited to three things: the ability to delegate tasks to someone else, coaching for the owner and key staff, and networking. Here’s your network.

When you register you can set up a profile, create a signature with links to your own website or blog, and upload a photo or select an avatar that reflects your personality.

This is an opportunity for you to NETWORK, LEARN and SHARE what you know in a positive place. Regular contributors will be rewarded as the site grows; there is a featured member page is in the works and prizes will follow.

Come on in and join the fray! Click here to visit the site, or copy and paste the link into your browser. http://mvpi.formotion.com

Book project taking off!


Wake Up Women BE Happy, Health & Wealthy is on track for an October 2008 release, and this pic is the just released cover proof. The book is written by dynamic, successful women who have built remarkable lives, and they are sharing their stories in this first book of the series. There are 40 co-authors who have each contributed to the book, and each of their stories is as individual as it is fascinating.

The authors in the book are top coaches and business women from a variety of backgrounds. You may or may not have heard of all of them yet, but their stories will touch readers everywhere. The authors include:

* Terri-Amos Britt * Amy Appelbaum * Alice Comer * Johanna Cortleigh * Arielle Ford * Loral Langemeier * Jennifer Morgan * Jet Parker * Sheila Pearl * Arlene Ranelli * Erica Rueschhoff * Michelle Sanchez *** and me, of course.

I’ll keep you up to date with our progress, and invite you to pre-order your own copy as soon as the system is set up and books are closer to printing.
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The 21st Century Career


We used to refer to “career” only in terms of work that you got paid for. Your career path was expected to start at the end of school and progress into something that led to retirement and a nice send off party. Things have finally changed! Your career includes work that you get paid for and the things that you volunteer for, but it’s even more than that.

You don’t need to see a career coach, consultant or counsellor to figure out just what kind of work turns your crank. Your life is about a lot more than just work, isn’t it? Sure you probably work, and if not you might be doing unpaid work. You also have people that are important; spouses, dates, children, parents, friends. Then you have hobbies or interests that you’d like to develop, education you might want to pursue, a community to be a part of, and more.

Developing your career is about managing your life. The real question is, do you know where you’re going, and how you’re going to get there?

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Want to be your own boss?


Lots of folks I work with contemplate self employment, but self employment is a lot easier to spell than it is to actually manage. You’ve got to be a certain type of person to manage your own business, and you’ve also got to have your life set up to manage the first several months or even years while the business gets underway and you start making money. If you are wondering if you have what it takes to consider working for yourself, there are all kinds of options on-line. The trouble is that many of them make you provide your email address in order to get your results, and then they flood your email with stuff that you never wanted while they try to sell you a series of “get rich quick” self study materials. The Business Development Bank of Canada offers an excellent assessment that doesn’t ask you to sign up, log in or jump on. The link is long so if it doesn't work, simply copy it and paste it into your browser window.

http://www.bdc.ca/en/business_tools/entrepreneurial_self-Assessment/Entrepreneurial_self_assessment.htm?cookie%5Ftest=1
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My world is a jam jar!

What else would I be doing today? A mid-morning meeting followed by an afternoon strategy session at my computer, then a couple of blood pumping phone calls, and then… had to tackle the strawberries.

Sunday afternoon I visited one of the local farm trucks and the smell of strawberries carried on the wind made me salivate. Instead of buying a wee package that we could scarf down easily, I broke down and bought an entire flat. 12 quarts of fresh mouth watering strawberries.

It took me an hour and a half to prep them all last night (chop chop chop), and this afternoon was optimal jam time judging by the plumpness and sweet swelling bowls in the fridge. It's also scorching hot around here today, a warm and humid 30 degrees Celsius (86 Fahrenheit) at 90% humidity. Can you imagine the sweaty brow?

I started the jam just after supper, and by 9:00 PM and time for my mastermind group to meet via phone the jam was still simmering in the pot. Thank goodness for my sister, who stood guard and stirred for the hour I was out of the kitchen. You have to stir that stuff continually so that it doesn’t catch on the bottom of the pot and spoil the batch, and fortunately for me she was willing.

The stack of jars look pretty appealing now that they are all done and sealed properly, and it's not quite midnight yet. The lengths some folks will go to for a decent piece of toast. :o)